Saturday, June 26, 2010

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

but what if the woman the husband is not fertile and cannot have a baby? is sperm doning an option then?

Pray hard! :) but honestly, I can't say the best advice on this because I feel only the way I feel due to limited experience & not really praying about it much....

but, I will pray about it some & if you ask again in a week or 2, I may have a more extensive answer.

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Is getting rid of a negative person the best thing to do if your trying to be a follower of Jesus? I knw ur supposed to reach out and help but right now im not stable enough to have any1 bring down my spirits..im growing in God!!??

Well, it depends on the situation, but most likely, it is the best decision. Check out I Corinthians 15:33....negative influences affect both the natural & spiritual climates of our lives in most cases, so separating ourselves from them is usually best because it gives us space & helps us to connect with God more in-depth...and honestly, just because we distance ourselves now doesn't mean that the distance is a permanent thing...it may be just for a season (but then again, it could be permanent too--it depends on the Lord)

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Brother Floyd, you still suck at Arcade Hoops at Walk-Ons.

hahahahahahahahahahahaha...I think I know who this is 4rm...lol

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Friday, June 18, 2010

What are some ways to aviod lusting over women in our society today? i'm sure it was a peice of cake to stay pure back in the day when women wore dresses down to theyre toes. but today even in the church girls are showing lots of skin...LOTS!!!!!!!!1

yeah, there is lots of skin being shown today, but it's because of what is promoted through the media & all that. It's honestly quite sad that many ladies are encouraged to dress provocative & show skin to "get a man" and to even show their beauty.

To answer your question, I would do a few things:
1) Pray really hard daily (I Thess. 5:17; James 5:16-18)
2) Avoid BET, MTV, VH1 & those type channels most of the time, if not all. They promote this type of ungodliness.
3) Be careful of the conversations you entertain--conversations create your meditations.
4) Be careful who you hang with...some people carry those "lustful" spirits and you don't want that stuff to rub off on you.
5) Watch out for the internet sites, magazines & other media that you view.
6) Stay in the Word daily--it will empower you & help you in this fight! Because it is most certainly a fight!

God bless you in your pursuit of purity my friend, as we all are when we hunger after God.

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My Godson is gay and friend request me on fb. I confirmed it but then he was posting pictures of him and his lover. Was I wrong to delete him off my friend list? What do you think?

Well, I don't think you were wrong, per sea, for deleting him, but you could have hid his postings so that you wouldn't see them....that way, you could maintain a connection to him through facebook (because some ppl take offense to you deleting them).

I would also encourage you to consider sharing your heart with him about how you don't agree with his lifestyle but that you love him & want the best for him. But, as far as deleting him is concerned, I wouldn't bring it up to him unless he brings it up...but pray for him & go as God leads you in regards to this situation.

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I wronged someone. I have tried to reach out and apologize. Went to them directly, my letter was returned. Sought the help of a mediator/pastor, a harassment suit was threatened. I still feel helpless, no peace even after seeking God. Suggestion?

I hate that you are in such a situation, but praying is the source of your peace, even if it takes some time to manifest. You have done the things that normally would work, but now you have to pray this thing through--I would use James 5:16-18 as my foundation, and when you pray, do this: 1. pray with passion & fervor; 2. proclaim the results that you are looking for/seeking after (forgiven, closure, etc.); 3. forgive yourself for your mistake & give it completely to God...after that, just praise God in advance for the results you are looking for.

I will be praying for you in this matter. God bless you & if I can help in any other way, let me know.

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Wednesday, June 16, 2010

What are some things that can always remind me of Jesus' second coming? I watch videos on youtube to remind myself everyday..do you think that might be bad that I do that? lol.

naw, it's not bad that you do that, but everything should be done in balance. So, watching those videos is fine, but you should make sure to help others to get close to the Lord also because you don't want to be the only one going up & not take any1 with you.

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when will the white iphone be available?

don't know homie...sure don't

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LAAAAAAKERS!

HAHAHAHAHAAHAHA

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Hey Bro Floyd this Terry, I've Known you for sometime now and I know that your are a true man of God, Keep doing what you are doing you will be Blessed.....

thank you Terry...I appreciate your support & your friendship. I have watched you grow a ton over the last few years & I am proud of you too man. God bless.

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Monday, June 14, 2010

Someone who is my elder has been talking to me lately and i just dont feel like shes right when she says even though you get saved and repent you are still going to hell if you have divorced n remarried for anything other than adultry.....scriptures??

well, that's what the Word appears to say at 1st glance, but here are a few things to consider:

1) is divorce an unpardonable sin? I think not...if you genuinely repent of it, then it's gone, just like any other sin. But, esp for those who get divorce prior to salvation, that sin is definitely in their past.

2) Divorce sometimes has to happen due to adultery, excessive abuse, etc. It's the door to a new start, because the other party refuses to change. (see I Cor. 7)

3) Big or small, people make mistakes; sometimes people are not given enough help to make it as a couple. As a result, their relationship fails. God will not send a person to hell if they have a chance to repent, grow & learn from their mistake.

God is firm & fiery, but is more graceful than people really understand. Thanks for this question. I pray this helps you. God bless you & walk in His grace & mercy!

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I'm a young man that is trying to overcome sexual impulses and actions for young women, How did you overcome your temptations?

the keys for this are: 1. being filled with the Holy Spirit (Acts 2:1-16); 2. praying--in the Holy Ghost & in the natural; 3. be connected w/ other brothers for accountability & prayer; 4. walk in & pursue faithfully & passionately your calling & purpose; 5. do your best to guard your eyes.

God bless you for this question my friend.

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What do you think about people who work on Sunday? Is it bad if you work on Sunday, but make it to services during the week and purchase the Sunday services to listen to/listen to them via your church website?

this is the answer from the previous question I answered....most of the continue is precisely relative to this particular question.

Some1 did ask it, but I didn't get to answer it yet, so I will answer both of these in 1 pop (then again, I may paste this answer in the other ?'s box too)...

But really, I personally am confident that working on Sunday is not as serious a violation as people consider it in most religious circles. If you read Hebrews 4, God's more concerned with His children walking in His 'rest' than observing a day.

I would make every attempt to get off at least 1 or 2 Sunday's a month though, just so you could have that fellowship. If you can't pull that off with your boss, go to a church that has services on Saturday evenings--that should help you out.

If you need any more help with this, please don't hesitate to ask again...in spite of the late rash of foolish questions, I do take questions like yours seriously & I am honored that you would ask me. Thanks & God bless!

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Hebrews 13:2, sometimes we might entertain angels. I want to know is it ok to give people who stand on corners change, or people who might look like they're on drugs money? Is this enabling them, or the famous quote people say "I meant it for good when

Well, personally, I believe that in every case, we should really ask the Holy Spirit what we should do for that person. I have at times just passed by people & gave them nothing because the Lord told me not to.

As far as being concerned with what they do with the money, that is a valid concern, but I think when you follow God's voice and/or prompting in your heart, you should just trust that God is leading you correctly. If in doubt, esp. when they are asking for food, go get the food for them (that usually is a good test of the heart).

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2.) "I gave them my money, so if they do drugs, then I've did my part?"

see the previous ? for this ? in entirety.

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Thanks for answering my question. If my church doesn't have Saturday service, is it okay if I attend the other services (Bible Study, cell group, etc.) if I work on Sunday?

yes, I do think it's ok to attend other services & cell groups. But, I also think that one of the most important things is to be in direct, consistent fellowship with believers for accountability & fellowship. God bless you as you continue to pursue God...it's apparent that you are hungry for God & righteousness altogether, otherwise you wouldn't be asking this type of question. Proud of you & I will be praying for you!

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Sunday, June 13, 2010

Saturday, June 12, 2010

I looked & I don't think this has been asked. Am I going to hell for working on Sunday since it's the sabbath day? Is there a law that I can go to my boss with so I can get Sunday off? I know you get people who joke on here. But I'm being serious. Thx.

Some1 did ask it, but I didn't get to answer it yet, so I will answer both of these in 1 pop (then again, I may paste this answer in the other ?'s box too)...

But really, I personally am confident that working on Sunday is not as serious a violation as people consider it in most religious circles. If you read Hebrews 4, God's more concerned with His children walking in His 'rest' than observing a day.

I would make every attempt to get off at least 1 or 2 Sunday's a month though, just so you could have that fellowship. If you can't pull that off with your boss, go to a church that has services on Saturday evenings--that should help you out.

If you need any more help with this, please don't hesitate to ask again...in spite of the late rash of foolish questions, I do take questions like yours seriously & I am honored that you would ask me. Thanks & God bless!

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If God cursed the serpent for convincing Eve to eat from the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil in Genesis 3:14 . Why in Matthew 14:16, Jesus told his disciples " be ye therefore wise as serpents.” This is confusing…What do you think?

Well, it's not about being completely like the serpent, but it's more like being like that quality of the serpent. In Genesis 3, the snake happened to be the animal that the devil used, so, the animal got cursed only as a result of it being used by the enemy--but it would have happened to any other animal that the devil would have used....

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Do you believe in astrology? Didn't the wisemen use the stars to find Jesus?

Naw, I don't believe in astrology. The wisemen didn't use it....

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why isnt the muslim relgion true to you? what makes jesus so true? why should we or anyone else believe in your god?

Jesus said He is true & He backs it up. John 14:6

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How come these questions don't link to your facebook anymore?

I don't know....I wish they would but they just aren't. Strange...

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Friday, June 11, 2010

Why are demons/the devil so present in the hood? Do they like to take over territories more than people? Does it have something to do with the poverty of the people also. Explain in depth PLEASE

Well, because many in the hood have welcomed the devil through doubt, hatred, bitterness, jealousy, etc. One thing people must understand about the devil & demons is that they are parasitic--they feed off of each other...and if you open the door to one & continue to allow that oppression to flow, then it opens the doorway to others...that's why in Mark 5 the man had "Legion"....

So, we must evict the enemy & then watch him flee...from our hood & block.

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why are some christians so judgemental? how can they lead the lost to christ when they judge them from the sins of there past? I just want to know your thoughts?

Honestly, I am with you--and you really effectively can't. People need to know God's forgiveness in such a way that they aren't looking over their shoulder worrying about what others are thinking about their past.

I Cor. 13 says "love....keeps no record of wrongs." Boy, if the church at large did this, how people's hearts would be healed & more people would get delivered. It's sad that people find more solice in the clubs & bars sometimes than the church because they feel as though church is a place where they will be condemned.

Thanks for asking this...I like discussing this topic. God bless you richly!

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If you can use something as elementary as "their speech betrays them" to accuse members of 220 of asking you controversial/belittling questions, then I can use the same method/quote to conclude that you are bitter. Get rid of it and let it go. Thoughts?

Personally, I normally wouldn't answer this question, but since you wanted to cover a fairly sensitive issue here, I will-->I must warn you though, after this, I am not answering anything else from you or your cohorts because it's crass & truthfully your hearts are not right.

To give you my thoughts, here goes:

1) To say that it's elementary is fine, because at least it's understandable. There's no need for a complex answer when things are fairly simple in this case. Truth is, out of all the people in the Body of Christ, from Bethany to beyond, the ONLY PEOPLE that I have ever been attacked by, questioned by or whatever you want to call it are a few people from that group. It's sad--WE ARE BROTHERS & SISTERS IN CHRIST, but some of you (& notice I said "some" because I have a few real friends in 220 that I like, trust, etc.) are just plain stupid, religious & down-right cold-hearted.

2) I have thoroughly enjoyed my 12.5 years thus far--I have learned a ton, have grown a lot & have made many quality friendships. Problem is, the few of you that just feel like you have the time to bother/antagonize/etc. someone who goes to your church & who you obviously know to some degree. What gives? what's the issue? where is YOUR PROBLEM? AND WHY do you choose to bring it/them out here instead of with me in person?

3) There is A BIG DIFFERENCE between bitterness & disagreement with a few people, a principle or an issue/set of issues. Personally, I KNOW without a shadow of a doubt that I am not bitter...I just don't agree with stuff like this, along with some things that have happened and some things that continue to happen. You CAN BE in an organization & disagree with some things & still be an active, functioning part of the organization. It happens in churches, job sites, sports teams, etc. Why is it that someone has to be bitter because they disagree or dislike something? It's truly possible to love, disagree & not be bitter...man, the past is the past. I have my preferences in all areas of my life, and through my experience, especially in this area, I have learned a great deal about what to do & what not to do.

4) who ever you are--I love you with the love of the Lord. You bother me, you & these others have upset me, but I love you anyway. So, if you don't mind, these questions & comments aren't helping anyone...so, please either keep them to yourself(ves) or come talk to me personally, face-to-face. Thanks....

God bless you & I pray that God would help you!

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Thursday, June 10, 2010

if God already know's who ends up in heaven and hell then what's the point? It makes my head hurt thinking about it. Like he knows which way I'll chose, so do i have have a choice?

Although God knows, because He operates outside of time, He still is God in that He loves, but doesn't hinder our free will--He may influence our free will due to the prayers/intercession of others, but overall, God knows, but still is here for us, functioning in the NOW.

God see things so much different from us (Is. 55:6-10), so don't get caught up in trying to look at this type stuff from His angle...focus on getting right/being right & staying right with HIm so that you are MOST CERTAINLY in that # my friend.

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Whoever these mean people are must be jealous. Why don't you ignore their dumb comments/questions? They need to grow up. I thank you for what you are doing. The q&a's have blessed me.

thank you for sharing that. God bless you....honestly, it's a few ppl with too much time on their hands, but most of them are now blocked...just, after months & months of deleting their questions but still feeling the foolishness come at me, I had to respond to some for a day or two.

Thanks again!

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Which animal is your favorite animal? What about house pets...which pet is of your choice?

cow...dog

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so how could you possibly KNOW who the people are? there is no evidence to support your claim.

in the words of the servant to Peter b4 he denied Jesus the 3rd time, their "speech betrays them."

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Laaaaaaakers!

NOT!!!!! lol

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It seems like there is drama going on in your own church. I thought Bethany would be a place of love & kindness. Why would people from "220", whatever that may be, say such bad things about you? What exactly is going on over there?

well, it's not the entire church to be honest--but just a few knuckleheads that just have a wrong heart & a bad spirit! Pray for the Body of Christ--use John 17. God bless you & thanks for the inquiry!

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God is really using u 2 minister via social media. Yet b/c I care for u, it grieves me 2 see people disrespecting u online. I don't understand why u respond 2 those who approach u w/ ignorance? Why not just ignore them? Attention seems to keep them going?

Well, to be honest with you, I have been very long-suffering with this--after months of this baggering, so to speak, I just got a little feed up with it.

It's just a few people--and honestly, I only answered half of the ones that came through...the rest, I have blocked. So, you probably won't see any/many more--because hopefully, I have blocked over 80% of the trouble-makers.

Thanks for your encouragement & I just had to say some things directly to those in offense. God bless you for sharing this with me & those who happen to read this. Greatly appreciated.

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Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Wow. people get nasty on here.just wanted to say I'm from your church, a few retards posting mean things isn't a representation of everyone here. It's unfair to say it's people from your church because 1. you don't know 2. it just makes us all look bad.

yeah they do---truth is, I know most of them are...and I choose 2 point them out bc they make false claims (that small group that is) of being so focused on their callings & the harvest but yet they are worried about me.

I love Bethany--it has been my home for 12+ years now...so I personally enjoy my time there--but there are a few ppl that get under my skin...so I choose to call them out....

If it makes us look bad, it's no worse than what many of them have already done in damaging the lives of so so many

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I love how you just assume every comment that questions you is made by a person from 220. Bottom line, take the Word to the streets. There is nothing more cowardly/passionless than to hide behind a blog, disciples aren't made from behind a computer.

yeah, the same as trying to correct some1 from behind a computer....it's not about discipling so much.....and I don't assume that every1 that asked those question is from that group, but I put it out there because I KNOW that most of them are....what's the point of spending your time trying to bother me & what I am doing...that means YOU & the REST OF THEM aren't in the streets bc u too busy worried about me & others....

stop being a "church stalker" and start worrying about the moat(s) in your own eye

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how come you dont like the iphone?? its because you dont have one....thats usually why someone doesnt like something as AWESOME, and INNOVATIVE as the iphone.

I was just playing....:)

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Wassup man God, you don't me but I have seen you via conversations w/D Montrell. I just wanted to commend you on all that you do -even when that means going against the grain(i.e. the young ladies everyone comments on) keep having the heart of God :)

thanks man....means a bunch bc there's no reason that a person should be attack in the church following and/or reaching out to people. that's what Jesus did...and that's what I plan to continue to do.

Honestly man, from the heart, your encouragement means a great deal to me. Thanks. Keep in touch too--follow me, shoot me an email, whatever--I like connecting with like minded & like hearted believers. God bless!

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Quote from you on earlier answer "I am CONFIDENT 100% that the Bible is ABSOLUTELY TRUE." But Exodus says people that work on Sabbath/Sunday "Should be put to death." Also lustful eyes should be gouged in Matthew, etc. Do you take back that comment now?

I just answered this...u didn't see it?

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Monday, June 7, 2010

who is jason perry and how did he dunk on you. i thought you were suppose to be like a good bball player?

he didn't

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did you hear that Mayweather is now "retiring for a year" he's so scared of pac-man.

I didn't hear that...let me look that up

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Aren't you the guy that just sits out in the foyer at Bethany?

sometimes....

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do you have a podcast?

trying to hook one up....can you help :)

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do you believe in game theory?

don't know what that is

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do you hate bethany?

nope...I love the church...it's the place where I grew & got my start...

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what is a good cure for insomnia?

reading the Bible....you will be sleep b4 u know it! sad but true...the devil would rather let you sleep than read the Word. :)

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Should women be allowed in ministry(like preachers, pastors, etc)?

yeah, they should. I think this is always an interesting discussion, because I believe firmly that women should preach (b/c we all should), but the Bible doesn't really show women walking as pastor or apostles....I am not saying I am firmly against women walking in those 2 posts, but it is just something that is never apparent.

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dang floyd...ijust looked at those girls profile & its not looking to good for you. i question your moral stand point now

good. thanks.

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did you like the new iphone that came out today?

naw. don't like iphones.

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Floyd, how many Pastors and/or ministers do you know that follow, or are even seen near people (especially the opposite sex) that display themselves in that sort of way. What if TD Jakes was publicly following two girls that are practically naked?

you mean to tell me you looked that hard to see that....if you did, that's on you. If you could see past the pictures & actually know that they are ppl....yes, I am not Jesus, but I am not gonna just act like I don't know certain ppl 2 make a religious person like you happy. I am not TD jakes...I actually know pastors both on facebook & on twitter who follow EVERY1 that follows them--naked or not....so, guess what--you are not my judge. Like i said, if I was using this to lust, I would repent. But, you can see what you see, but you WILL NOT judge my heart. I know the impact I am having--I get the emails, you don't...I get the texts, the facebook comments, etc. So, I know what God has called me to do....so maybe you should learn what God has called you to do.

The reason why I am going so hard on you on this is because you don't have a genuine concern because you are trying to do this like a coward....if you want to reach me, you can email me, call me, come see me at church, etc. So, be a REAL CHRISTIAN & stop acting like you got this great discernment & no everything.

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now that someone brought it up, it does kinda concern me (the whores on your twitter) its the very reason i stopped following you. I dont want to stumble cause some chick has her boobs hanging out on your twitter feed. Plus those chicks r just jezabels.

that's your choice....if that's what you choose 2 do...then do it. If you want 2 judge 2 people that you don't know, then go ahead....I ain't stumbling cause I barely even look at them....don't say much to them hardly...but when I get the opportunity to, I do...and there's respect there....and the fact that you can't spell jezebel tells me that you probably can't properly discern the spirit either....stop being religious.

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why a cell group of 500? that's more like a church! lol

lol....I know.

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Floyd, I didn't write that previous question but I looked up those twitter names and got flashed simply visiting their profile page. Yes, Jesus hung around sinners, but you are a mere man prone to a fall. In way what are you ministering to these people?

why does it concern you....if you want to see my inbox & check how many times I talk 2 them or whatever, do it....but I personally talk 2 a variety of ppl....I don't understand why you or any1 else would want to take the time to bring this to my attention anonymously...it's so crass 2 me. this ain't even Biblical. these are ppl that I know & have had convos with on a variety of issues, from church to business....so, I don't have any conviction about it because I KNOW 4 a fact where my heart is in this matter--it ain't about lust or whatever else....if it was, i would repent.

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for the love! stop calling it formsprings! it's formspring. that drives me literally insane! It's like "hey hit me up on the twitters or the facebooks" my brain bleeds!!!! otherwise. you rock :)

ok....u got it homie.

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Usually when people dont wear clothes they're involved in some form porn haha moron. plus why should you be involved with them, man of God...what if Pastor Larry saw that. would he approve of that? Looking from the outside it looks like you have an issue.

well, if that what your opinion is religious church-goer, than so be it. These were the same type of ppl Jesus hung around moron...what do you think mary magdelene was....if you studied your Bible. Maybe your leader hasn't taught you well enough...you aren't a good student...I bet your cell group has only 20 instead of 200. you're slacking because you're too worried about me instead of the harvest....

if you want to waste Pastor Larry's time telling him about who I talk to, go ahead...I don't have to justify myself to you, him or anyone else, because God knows my heart--you DON'T!.

Summer challenge is coming up....so run along young padawong! :)

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I was looking at your twitter page and was curious to who you follow. So i clicked on the list and came across some people that you are following...such as..... "RealBonitaMami"........"LuvKneeCle" who are apparently Pornstars.....answers?

who are you to judge those ppl...I actually know them & they aren't pornstarts--you judgmental jerk...learn how to really walk in love....did your leader tell you to call that porn or is that your own opinion?

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You say below that 'God wants us to do (this)' in certain times of need. But how is it humanly possible to know what God wants us to do? You say 'God can do whatever he wants', so he could possibly be fooling us as we speak. Your thoughts?

Proverbs 3:5-6

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I think what you do for people is amazing! God blessed you with the power to spread his word when others arent listening or need that extra guidance! Don't ever let anyone put you down for what you do. God bless you my friend :]

thanks...I appreciate these words & don't take them lightly....it's just sad that other church folks take the time to try to attack me...it really is sad.

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your life must be miserable

quite the contrary my friend....your life must be miserable as well....go ask your leader if they approve of you taking this time to do this....I know they must not be too happy with you doing this...you need to be out leading a cell group of 500

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What is your calling in life? To give people terrible advice? you need to stop acting like Fag and get of this web site. God help you if you cant see that these people are asking you stupid questions on purpose

hahahahaahahahaahaahahahaaha....for you to take the time to ask this question, you are actually calling yourself the same name you called me...you don't sound very Christian...you sound more religious to me. Go talk to your leader & see if they approve of your actions.

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what qualifies you to answer questions and give advice about situations you have NEVER been in???

it's called Godly wisdom via God's Word & the Holy Spirit. Jesus was speaking with the advisors & teachers of His time at 12 with no formal training or anything....with the Holy Spirit & God's Word, there are so many things that you can do & say that you or I would not normally be able to.

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You said below that aborted babies go to heaven bc they weren't allowed a chance to take in Jesus Christ, but there are thousands of people in peaceful people Africa, Russia etc. that believe in something else and have never been witnessed to. Thoughts?

yeah, but they have a choice because they become old enough to pursue God on their own. Check out Romans 2 when you get a chance, as well as Jeremiah 29:13.

when people develop a mind where they can make decisions, then God holds them accountable.

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Will cities with alot of homosexuals be destroyed like in the Bible? Is that why natural disasters come to cities that practice such acts?

there is some truth to that, because God does at times judge areas or regions based on the prominent sin; but, because we are under a time of grace, God is really wanting to give as many ppl a chance to repent as possible (II Pet. 3:8-9).

Natural disasters come because of this at times, but just because at other times.

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Ok, here's the deal: my mother-in-law is not cool...AT ALL. she's been saying things to my husband about me that are not cool to say about me in the LEAST..and he's listening!!!! am i completely wrong for considering a divorce??

Well, the temptation for divorce is a reasonable thought naturally, BUT you must defeat that thought. The devil wants to destroy your home & family life--but you must must must press on/forward.

here's what I would do:

1) Pray for 3-7 days & spend 50% to 100% more time really pressing in to the Lord. read & meditate on James 5:16-18, Psalms 37:4 & I Thess. 5:17. In that time, ask God to give you wisdom on what to say, when to say & how to say it to your husband.

2) Determine in your heart that you want to save your marriage. God "hates" divorce & we should strive to do so as well.

3) After spending time in prayer, you & your husband need to sit down & talk about how you feel about this situation from your heart. Tell him that you want to save the marriage but this is really hurting you.

4) Ask your husband if you & him could pray together each morning & night for a few moments/minutes.

5) You & your husband find a weekend to get away & just be alone. Use this time to relax, get away, talk with each other, etc.

If you have any other questions, please do feel free to ask again. God bless you & thank you for asking me. It's an honor.

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I really don't want to be gay. I never had same sex intercourse before. But I've been thinking about it for years. I'm a Christian. I don't want to do the act but maybe I do since I think about it. I just want to please God and go to Heaven.

well, thoughts sometimes originate from us & what's in our spirits, whereas other times, those things originate 4rm the enemy. So, as a result, it is important to know the difference.

The best way is to know what the source is to watch out for what is feeding into your soul--via media (tv, music, internet, etc.).

Because homosexuality is pushed as an agenda in our modern society, it's easy to think about it from a standpoint of how it relates to society & you it can & does affect you.

The best way to avoid this spirit is to just submerge yourself in a strong prayer life, God's Word & fellowship with other believers who are trying to be holy & strong.

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What is your opinion on women's swim suits? As a brother, I honestly don't see the difference between women's underwear and a two piece women's swim suit. Isn't revealing as much skin as wearing underwear a possible stumbling block and why is it accepted?

Well, it's accepted because ppl don't want to be accountable for their decisions & how those decisions affect others.

For women, I believe it's easy to be oblivious to the fact that men are visual & that it is their Biblical responsibility to modest in their attire (I Tim. 2).

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I am having a hard time understanding why Jesus is saying that he is not good in this scripture. " And Jesus said to him, “Why do you call me good? No one is good except God alone." Mark 10:18

To me, one thing that he was doing was setting the precedent for humility & dependence on God.

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where does the new covenant say that?

Eph. 5:21-27 & I tim. 2

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One word for you Moron...DELUSION

takes one 2 know one... :)

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Would you say homosexuals can have "Sex" or would you agree that sex can only occur between a man and a woman?.. and that two guys or two girls...or someone flyin solo would only be..well..not having sex..rather something else? your thoughts.

homosexuals can have "sex" but it's not blessed by God...it's sin.

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Why can't we have multiple wives and concubines like Saul and David did?

because the New Covenant says so....

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whatever happened to the huge announcement?

it's coming soon.

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Sunday, June 6, 2010

how can you possibly love 5,000+ friends on facebook? you don't even know those people. It sounds so fake

try I cor. 13 on for size. God bless! It sounds fake to you, but it's well received by many others.

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Saturday, June 5, 2010

man this has just gone down the tubes haha

that's what u think--but ur certainly wrong my friend...go do the harvest like you are supposed to & stop worrying about things that don't concern you....

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do aborted babies go to heaven

I do believe so-->they were never given a chance to grow & choose Christ, so yes, those souls return back to God!

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is it ok to marry someone after a few months..lets say 6 months? What about 1 month of being in a relationship? can God speak to someone that early in a relationship and tell them to get married?

well, I think God can, but I don't think that it's a customary thing. God can do whatever He wants, but this is something that I believe is a very rare thing, as it can be unsafe.

I know of couples who have gotten married after only 5-8 months of dating, and those couples are still married for 15+ years & loving each other, but many don't have that kind of faith and/or character.

Great question...I will stop here now just to leave room for convo below...and I will say more there.

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Friday, June 4, 2010

How do you feel about extraterrestrial life. Could God be an Extra-terrestrial Being?

God is Extra-terrestrial but not in the way we think of (weird & alien-like/strange), but in a different & more majestic way!

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If a married man cheats on his wife then gets married to his mistress. Do you think God will still bless his marriage to his mistress?

well, he will reap some things in his marriage & life for doing some ungodly like this, but eventually he will get past it if he truly repents & both he & his new wife choose the right path...David had to endure hardships due to his adulterous affair w/ Bathsheba via his own son Absalom, but eventually he overcame it because he remained faithful to the Lord (II Sam. 11-19)

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actually, no it doesn't. As the one mexican in the room i can say "wow, this audience is all whiteys" that doesn't make me a white devil.

well, for you to even be asking all these questions & making these statements make you a part of this audience....now stop trying to secretly insult people--BE A MAN/WOMAN & show your face and stop being an UNGODLY COWARD & WASTING MY TIME & THE TIME OF THESE OTHER PEOPLE....YES, I am certainly calling you out because I know you feel like you just having fun, but YOU ARE IN SIN DOING THIS & you need to go to your church & do more praying & ministering than wasting this time....I am sick of this foolish you are doing. Consider yourself rebuked-->God bless you!

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What are you doing to help God's creation that is suffering from the oil spill?

praying 1st; that's the only thing I am in power to do at this point--and that's a good bit

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Do you believe in Harvey Dent?

don't know who that is.

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Ok so I see a question of mine hasn't been answered. Did you ignore any recently or do you still have some awaiting answers?

I still have some waiting...I haven't been on the internet as much...got a good bit going on....but I will get to it.

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If someone said "I will pay for you to go on a 1 week all-inclusive(you don't pay for anything)vacation anywhere in the U.S.; but you can't take your computer & your cell can only be used for emergencies & to check on your family". Where would you go?

this is a great question: can I pick more than 1 choice? Well, no matter what your answer to that ? is, here are my 5 choices:
1) St. Thomas
2) South Africa
3) Washington DC (near the Capital)
4) Hawaii
5) Austrailia

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Wednesday, June 2, 2010