My ex husband and I have a child together and he is deployed so I talk to him on a regular basis although I dont like to. Its because he always dwells on our past relationship. The convos tend to bring back bitterness how can I keep it out??

Well, you may want to find points of joy that will help you swift the conversation. You may also want to magnify the Lord & talk about the Lord a little more & even share things that God puts on your heart.

Also, when that bad stuff comes up, do your best to shift the focus to like prayer and how ya'll should pray for each other & your child together.

Prayer really does change things (James 5:16-18), but it must be done with persistence & passion, esp when it's one-on-one with God.

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